May 11, 2026

Anyone can criticize or accept praise, but initiating a positive exchange is a hallmark of a difference-maker. Your example, not your opinion, changes the world.

Negativity has a more powerful impact on us than positive – it’s about three times more powerful. In relationships, we need approximately three positive interactions for every negative interaction. When it dips below that, communication and collaboration break down, and we cannot reach each other. Negativity eventually undermines us.

As leaders, in every realm of our lives, we get to be intentional in stepping aside from negativity. We get to set the standard by refusing to get involved in other people’s drama or business and by refusing to listen to gossip, judgment, and assumptions. Instead, we influence at higher levels by drawing boundaries around negativity, allowing our influence to model contagious positive energy that adds to others' lives rather than drains them.

Decide not to pollute your life, or the lives of others, with negativity. Be a fountain, not a drain, by making a conscious effort to speak life-generating words, to speak with integrity, and to avoid using your words to speak against others. This is your choice. Which will you choose?

Be the “delightful surprise” people are craving!!

Intentionally Own It! What growth does this message inspire me to embrace, and why does it matter? When I embrace it, who am I becoming, and what value does this add to my life and to others?